by Nancy | Sep 30, 2020
Over the past few months, several of my friends have become grandparents. I’ve witnessed first-hand the joy and unconditional love showered upon these babies, and I’m thrilled. Over the past few years, I’ve also witnessed first-hand the anxiety of...
by Nancy | Sep 23, 2020
Yes, I borrowed the title from a television show that sets people up with actors portraying situations of various conundrums. Some of the people do nothing and others actually confront the actors to weigh in on what they’re overhearing. And it has me wondering...
by Nancy | Sep 16, 2020
We all have a voice. We use it in many ways over a single day when we’re ordering coffee at a drive-thru, talking on the phone to a client, or chatting with the family at the dinner table. The tone of our voices can vary as well, whether we’re adopting...
by Nancy | Sep 9, 2020
Most of us remember Jack Nicholson uttering this iconic line in “A Few Good Men.” In fact, it won him an Academy Award in 1993. Back then, the truth was an absolute. Now, not so much. If I’ve learned anything at all from watching cable news,...
by Nancy | Sep 2, 2020
Now more than ever, I’m understanding the importance of compassion.Now more than ever, I’m recognizing those people who lack it.First, let’s get the dictionary definition out of the way. It is “sympathetic pity and concern for the sufferings...
by Nancy | Aug 26, 2020
Ever since Bruce Banner was accidently exposed to gamma rays, he turns into the Incredible Hulk when he gets angry. And he’s not the only one. There are a lot of angry people out there. I know this because I deal with them almost every day in my mediation...
by Nancy | Aug 19, 2020
This pandemic is forcing people to rethink what comes next. My next chapter started years ago after my husband died and I needed to find a way to earn a living. Maybe you’re simply tired of your job. Regardless of the circumstances, considering the options...
by Nancy | Aug 12, 2020
Has anyone ever flaked out on you? Do you have friends who say they’ll help out, be there, do something, and then they don’t? I call them “50:50 no-shows” and sometimes I think I’m being a bit too generous. It’s frustrating,...
by Nancy | Aug 5, 2020
I get it — silence is golden. I’ve heard that statement more times than I can count, likely because I talk a lot. I don’t take it personally because I have come to understand the impact of the pause. As a Mediator, my super-power is helping people...
by Nancy | Jul 29, 2020
I’m often asked if couples ever successfully reconcile. While it’s not my job to assist in this regard, I do occasionally see people who decide to stay together. They actually succeed sometimes, if they’re willing to do the work, and if they choose...
by Nancy | Jul 22, 2020
Are you a donkey married to an elephant? Do you engage in healthy discussions with your spouse, or do you have the discipline to simply “not go there?” We are living in an era of extreme partisanship, and tolerance isn’t always at the forefront,...
by Nancy | Jul 15, 2020
How do you start or restart a pendulum? You give it a hearty push and it goes all the way to the left, and then all the way to the right, and so on, and so on, until it settles in the middle. I use this analogy frequently in my mediation practice, especially when...
