by Nancy | Sep 11, 2019
Ok, that’s a lie. I am not a worrier. I can’t exactly explain how I got that way, or whether it’s a good idea or a not-so-good one. Worrying is a form of self-protection. It’s an important and instinctive emotion that morphs into action so...
by Nancy | Sep 4, 2019
Psychologists define an enabler as “someone who allows poor choices and decisions to continue despite knowing that those choices can be harmful to the other person.” Could the psychologists be describing you? I know you think you’re simply being a...
by Nancy | Aug 28, 2019
My earliest memory of feeling shame was when I wet my pants at the library. I was four years old, and my mom left me in the children’s section (back when it was okay to do that). I had to pee and I couldn’t find anyone to show me to the bathroom. The...
by Nancy | Aug 21, 2019
Boy, oh boy, have I seen a lot of different types of families! One of the things I love the best about being a Mediator is that no two days are alike. And I’ve come to realize that no two families are alike. Traditionally, families were classified as either...
by Nancy | Aug 14, 2019
My Dad was somewhat of a savant. The fact that he could be counted on to count everything always amazed me. Just like Dustin Hoffman’s iconic “Rainman,” my Dad memorized statistics. What was more amazing was his ability to remember names. I wish I...
by Nancy | Aug 7, 2019
I had an epiphany the other day. Confession: I don’t get them often, but when I have one, I need to write about it. When you read this, you may think that I’m preaching to the choir, or that my self-proclaimed flash of brilliancy is not very brilliant....
by Nancy | Jul 31, 2019
I once drove a Dodge station wagon with faux wood paneling. Enough said. Now that I’ve confessed to you, it’s your turn. When you’re in an argument with your kid, do you find yourself making statements that begin with “You never . . .?” ...
by Nancy | Jul 24, 2019
Let me start by stating that not all daughters-in-law are rude, and not all mothers think nobody is good enough to marry their sons. I happen to have a terrific relationship with my mother-in-law, and I know of many others who do as well. End of disclaimer. According...
by Nancy | Jul 17, 2019
The first house I ever bought was in a brand new development. Eager to meet the neighbors and fantasizing about borrowing a cup of sugar, I was shocked to learn that their main priority was to figure out what kind of fence we all wanted. Fences? What about the cup of...
by Nancy | Jul 10, 2019
Charles Darwin once said, “It is not the strongest of the species that survives, nor the most intelligent that survives. It is the one that is most adaptable to change.” I know for a fact that Mr. Darwin was not referring to me. I also know that our fear...
by Nancy | Jul 3, 2019
I’ve started two businesses with friends. One ended amicably. The other? Not so much. If I knew then what I know now . . . famous last words, right? Now that I’m a Mediator and have conducted many business mediations, I’ve seen a lot of what...
by Nancy | Jun 26, 2019
I’ve been wanting to dig deeper on this particular expression for awhile; long before I first heard Taylor Swift’s song, “You Need to Calm Down.” Can you guess what it is? If you said anything resembling “you need to,” give...
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