Taking the High Road (Three Minute Read)

Taking the High Road (Three Minute Read)

by | Nov 1, 2023

Have you ever lost your wallet? Do you remember that sinking feeling in the pit of your stomach at the moment you realized it was gone?  You retraced your steps and then contacted the store manager, who told you that it had just been turned in to the lost and found. ...
It’s All About the Grandchildren (Three Minute Read)

It’s All About the Grandchildren (Three Minute Read)

by | Oct 25, 2023

One of life’s greatest joys (I am told) is being a grandparent. It’s likely one of the purest expressions of unconditional love, ranking right up there with how your dog or cat feels about you at dinnertime.   Pure? Yes.  And complicated?  Maybe. ...
Wiping the Slate Clean (Three Minute Read)

Wiping the Slate Clean (Three Minute Read)

by | Oct 18, 2023

As a divorce and family mediator, I sometimes think I specialize in the grudges of others.  And I confess, I’ve had one or two of my own (although seriously, not more than two).  Do we forgive and forget?  I think not.  Forgiveness is easier for me than...
Can Grief and Joy Co-Exist? (Three Minute Read)

Can Grief and Joy Co-Exist? (Three Minute Read)

by | Oct 11, 2023

“The deeper that sorrow carves into your being, the more joy you can contain.” ~ Khalil GibranFor more than five years, I’ve had the privilege of volunteering for www.AdamsPlaceLV.org, which is a phenomenal non-profit helping children to deal with the loss of a...
I’m Very Sorry (Three Minute Read)

I’m Very Sorry (Three Minute Read)

by | Oct 4, 2023

Let me tell you about a divorce mediation I conducted with a couple ending their 30-year marriage.  “Mary” was determined to share that she had read a text on “Bill’s” phone that she obviously wasn’t meant to see. I let her vent about Bill’s infidelity and looked for...
My Feelings Are Hurt (Three Minute Read)

My Feelings Are Hurt (Three Minute Read)

by | Sep 27, 2023

I’ll admit it right here and right now.  I’m sensitive.  I take most things seriously and personally.  To be clear, what I’m talking about here is not the Mount Everest of abuse and betrayal. Rather, I’m on the first rung of a small ladder, looking at some...
Do I Talk Too Much? (Three Minute Read)

Do I Talk Too Much? (Three Minute Read)

by | Sep 20, 2023

Let’s start out with a confession: my childhood nickname was “Mighty Mouth.”  Turns out I’m still a talker.  And a writer, which is why I force myself to keep my weekly blogs to a maximum of 500 words.   According to Patricia Marx, a staff...
Arguing in Front of the Kids (Three Minute Read)

Arguing in Front of the Kids (Three Minute Read)

by | Sep 13, 2023

In more than 11 years of being a divorce mediator, I’ve seen my share of marital arguments.  (And I’ve had plenty of my own.)  When my divorcing clients confess to me that they fight in front of their kids, I try not to react, even though it conjures up...
Blackmail: The Emotional Kind (Three Minute Read)

Blackmail: The Emotional Kind (Three Minute Read)

by | Sep 6, 2023

The clock is ticking.  The holidays are fast approaching, and your fuse is as short as daylight in December. You’ve got many things on your to-do list and not enough time or money to get them done. So, you lash out at your partner, finally telling her what you’ve been...
Personal Accountability (Three Minute Read)

Personal Accountability (Three Minute Read)

by | Aug 23, 2023

Please raise your hand if you have a definition of “personal accountability.”  Here’s mine:  Personal accountability happens when you’re willing to answer for the outcome resulting from your choice, your action, or your behavior. I like to...
What Have You Learned Today? (Three Minute Read)

What Have You Learned Today? (Three Minute Read)

by | Aug 16, 2023

I make it a point to learn something new every day. It’s been a habit of mine for years and started shortly after my mom was diagnosed with Alzheimer’s.  Plus, challenging myself is its own reward. Albert Einstein once said, “Intellectual growth...