by Nancy | Sep 15, 2021
When I was in college, I had a poster in my dorm room with the words “I know you think you understand what you thought I said but I’m not sure you realize that what you heard is not what I meant.” Credit for the quote goes to Alan Greenspan, the...
by Nancy | Sep 8, 2021
I’ve often wished I could take photos of my divorcing clients who have figured out how to stay friends. I’d frame every picture and hang them on my imaginary “Hall of Fame Wall.” That being said, what if staying friends with your ex is...
by Nancy | Sep 1, 2021
I have a confession to make. Throughout this pandemic, I’ve done very little by way of self-improvement. I feel a combination of envy and disdain when I hear about people decluttering their closets, or starting a new exercise regimen. There are many things...
by Nancy | Aug 25, 2021
I’m not sure if this is a new thing, but for sure it’s new to me. And thank you to my friend, Margo, for introducing it to me.O.Q.P. is an acronym that stands for “Only Quality People.” What does that mean, exactly? According to my research,...
by Nancy | Aug 18, 2021
My parents used to bicker with each other almost every day, and it had a negative impact on me. I would barricade myself in my room and turn the stereo on full-blast so I couldn’t hear them. Even after I grew up and moved out, they continued to bicker in front...
by Nancy | Aug 11, 2021
Despite bearing the moniker of “Peacemaker,” the very nature of my job requires that I listen to and sort through the drama of others, often rolling my eyes without being noticed. This can be exhausting. Why do some people insist upon creating and/or...
by Nancy | Aug 4, 2021
Let’s assume you’re on the other end of a sincere apology. What happens next? Will a handshake or a hug be enough? Forgiveness is not easy. It’s a conscious choice, day by day, and sometimes even moment by moment. It’s a commitment, that’s for sure, with...
by Nancy | Jul 28, 2021
I happen to think that a sincere apology is important. Do you agree? We all apologize numerous times each day. There’s what I call the “oops-sorry” apology, when you accidentally bump into someone’s heels with your shopping cart. Also easily recognizable is the...
by Nancy | Jul 21, 2021
It occurs to me that life is like a giant relay race. So, in the spirit of the 2021 Summer Olympics, I’m going to belabor the analogy of passing the baton. Humor me. Have you ever thought that you’re the only one who can do something correctly? That if...
by Nancy | Jul 14, 2021
I think William Shakespeare said it best, “Neither a borrower nor a lender be . . .” [“Hamlet,” Act 1, Scene III.]Of course, that’s pretty much impossible. We have student loans, car loans, and mortgages. Who hasn’t hit up a parent or grandparent for an assist at one...
by Nancy | Jul 7, 2021
Wait. What? Our kids have grown up and now we’re the ones who are aging? How did that happen? Weren’t we watching their soccer games like a minute ago? If you’re at all aware of the emotional toll it takes to deal with aging parents, I’m...
by Nancy | Jun 30, 2021
If you’re fortunate enough to still have your parents around, I’m pretty sure you’ve had at least a passing thought about your role in their aging process. Perhaps you’re already dealing with some of these issues: 1. Care, safety, and...
