Children As Messengers

Never use your child as a messenger to inform your ex about school and extra-curricular activities, such as “mom says you should attend teacher conferences next week.” It’s uncomfortable for the child, and it’s not really reliable. Communicate...

Meet the Teacher

Avoid any issues up front by sitting down with your child’s teacher or school counselor at the start of the school year and explain your family dynamics. Do this without your child present as you don’t want to embarrass your child, but you do want the...

Kids and Homework

Have your kids do homework with you, even if you are not the custodial parent. Helping with homework is a primary parental responsibility — and can be a joy with a long lasting positive impact on your children. Helping with homework is not the exclusive role of...

Summer is Over

Summer is over and the co-parenting challenges of a new school year are upon us. It’s all about the backpack. Kids with two homes need a space that’s uniquely “theirs,”even if it’s portable. Spend time making your child’s new...