Happy Birthday Grandma

Today my grandmother Mary who I loved dearly, would have been 101 years old. She left us last New Year’s Eve. Yes, she lived to be 100. I have come to realize that I’d better take better care of my body as it might have to last a long time!! In honor of my...

ADA Accommodations for the Mediation Process

Sometimes individuals with disabilities need an accommodation to allow full participation in the mediation process. Accommodations that might be needed include: assistance with verbal or written communications; specific meeting times or specific break times due to...

Child Support Mediation

Because child support is determined by statutory guidelines, parents can often come to agreements quickly and in a clear-cut way. After all, simply put, the courts mandate it. However, the argument is often heard that child support isn’t really being used to...

The “Little Red Truck”

The other day I saw a friend put on the spot as he was asked to make a small impromptu speech. His opening remarks went something like this, “Good morning, I feel like that guy whose house caught on fire. He phoned the fire department to report his need for their...

The Benefit of a Mediator

Recently, the following quote from Danish physicist Niels Bohr was featured on our Twitter page: “The opposite of a correct statement is a false statement. But the opposite of a profound truth may well be another profound truth.” Abraham Pais, physicist and science...

Addressing Workplace Conflict

Conflict is a natural and inevitable, part of even the most established workplaces. It is common for employees to have different views and opinions about situations. It is human nature to attempt and convince others to think the same way. As a result, conflict...

Mediated Divorce

A mediated divorce is usually less costly, less time-consuming, and less stressful than going to court. When a couple can agree to the terms of their divorce by way of mediation, the divorce experience is often faster and cheaper especially when you consider attorney...

Co Parenting Do’s & Don’ts

A few Co Parenting Do’s & Don’ts : 1. Do focus on your children. 2. Do find new activities for you and your children to enjoy together. 3. Don’t focus on your former spouse. When you find yourself doing this, mentally say “stop” and...

Find A Remedy

One of our recent motivational messages on our Twitter account was: “Don’t find fault. Find a remedy.” – Henry Ford. We think this is a great message for those utilizing mediationto resolve conflict. Our mediators are trained to assist clients with this...

There May Be A Better Way

“It is always safe to assume, not that the old way is wrong, but that there may be a better way.” — Henry F. Harrower This was a recent quote on our Twitter page. It’s easy to get ‘stuck’ with one certain viewpoint on an issue. As your...

Three Truths

“There are three truths: my truth, your truth and the truth.” — Chinese Proverb. This was the motivational message we posted on our Twitter account recently. In thinking about a dispute you might be in, is it possible for you to consider that there are...

Get On The School Mailing List

It is up to both parents to ensure they are on school mailing/email lists. If your spouse took care of this while you were married, you can’t expect this upon divorce. Make the effort to stay connected to the school and put your name on all appropriate lists. If...