Co Parenting Do’s & Don’ts

by | Sep 19, 2011

A few Co Parenting Do’s & Don’ts : 1. Do focus on your children. 2. Do find new activities for you and your children to enjoy together. 3. Don’t focus on your former spouse. When you find yourself doing this, mentally say “stop” and...

Find A Remedy

by | Sep 16, 2011

One of our recent motivational messages on our Twitter account was: “Don’t find fault. Find a remedy.” – Henry Ford. We think this is a great message for those utilizing mediationto resolve conflict. Our mediators are trained to assist clients with this...

There May Be A Better Way

by | Sep 15, 2011

“It is always safe to assume, not that the old way is wrong, but that there may be a better way.” — Henry F. Harrower This was a recent quote on our Twitter page. It’s easy to get ‘stuck’ with one certain viewpoint on an issue. As your...

Three Truths

by | Sep 14, 2011

“There are three truths: my truth, your truth and the truth.” — Chinese Proverb. This was the motivational message we posted on our Twitter account recently. In thinking about a dispute you might be in, is it possible for you to consider that there are...

Get On The School Mailing List

by | Sep 13, 2011

It is up to both parents to ensure they are on school mailing/email lists. If your spouse took care of this while you were married, you can’t expect this upon divorce. Make the effort to stay connected to the school and put your name on all appropriate lists. If...

Children As Messengers

by | Sep 12, 2011

Never use your child as a messenger to inform your ex about school and extra-curricular activities, such as “mom says you should attend teacher conferences next week.” It’s uncomfortable for the child, and it’s not really reliable. Communicate...

Meet the Teacher

by | Sep 9, 2011

Avoid any issues up front by sitting down with your child’s teacher or school counselor at the start of the school year and explain your family dynamics. Do this without your child present as you don’t want to embarrass your child, but you do want the...

Kids and Homework

by | Sep 8, 2011

Have your kids do homework with you, even if you are not the custodial parent. Helping with homework is a primary parental responsibility — and can be a joy with a long lasting positive impact on your children. Helping with homework is not the exclusive role of...

Summer is Over

by | Sep 8, 2011

Summer is over and the co-parenting challenges of a new school year are upon us. It’s all about the backpack. Kids with two homes need a space that’s uniquely “theirs,”even if it’s portable. Spend time making your child’s new...