by Nancy | Sep 26, 2011
Because child support is determined by statutory guidelines, parents can often come to agreements quickly and in a clear-cut way. After all, simply put, the courts mandate it. However, the argument is often heard that child support isn’t really being used to...
by Nancy | Sep 23, 2011
The other day I saw a friend put on the spot as he was asked to make a small impromptu speech. His opening remarks went something like this, “Good morning, I feel like that guy whose house caught on fire. He phoned the fire department to report his need for their...
by Nancy | Sep 22, 2011
Recently, the following quote from Danish physicist Niels Bohr was featured on our Twitter page: “The opposite of a correct statement is a false statement. But the opposite of a profound truth may well be another profound truth.” Abraham Pais, physicist and science...
by Nancy | Sep 21, 2011
Conflict is a natural and inevitable, part of even the most established workplaces. It is common for employees to have different views and opinions about situations. It is human nature to attempt and convince others to think the same way. As a result, conflict...
by Nancy | Sep 20, 2011
A mediated divorce is usually less costly, less time-consuming, and less stressful than going to court. When a couple can agree to the terms of their divorce by way of mediation, the divorce experience is often faster and cheaper especially when you consider attorney...
by Nancy | Sep 19, 2011
A few Co Parenting Do’s & Don’ts : 1. Do focus on your children. 2. Do find new activities for you and your children to enjoy together. 3. Don’t focus on your former spouse. When you find yourself doing this, mentally say “stop” and...
by Nancy | Sep 16, 2011
One of our recent motivational messages on our Twitter account was: “Don’t find fault. Find a remedy.” – Henry Ford. We think this is a great message for those utilizing mediationto resolve conflict. Our mediators are trained to assist clients with this...
by Nancy | Sep 15, 2011
“It is always safe to assume, not that the old way is wrong, but that there may be a better way.” — Henry F. Harrower This was a recent quote on our Twitter page. It’s easy to get ‘stuck’ with one certain viewpoint on an issue. As your...
by Nancy | Sep 14, 2011
“There are three truths: my truth, your truth and the truth.” — Chinese Proverb. This was the motivational message we posted on our Twitter account recently. In thinking about a dispute you might be in, is it possible for you to consider that there are...
by Nancy | Sep 13, 2011
It is up to both parents to ensure they are on school mailing/email lists. If your spouse took care of this while you were married, you can’t expect this upon divorce. Make the effort to stay connected to the school and put your name on all appropriate lists. If...
by Nancy | Sep 12, 2011
Never use your child as a messenger to inform your ex about school and extra-curricular activities, such as “mom says you should attend teacher conferences next week.” It’s uncomfortable for the child, and it’s not really reliable. Communicate...
by Nancy | Sep 9, 2011
Avoid any issues up front by sitting down with your child’s teacher or school counselor at the start of the school year and explain your family dynamics. Do this without your child present as you don’t want to embarrass your child, but you do want the...
